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Islamic birth Rites...
Alhamdulillah i have reached 30 weeks...inshaAllah 10 more weeks to go....
Now besides sibuk kemas2 bilik, now me and habib are looking into islamic birth rights takut tertinggal anything.
ok the first thing we should do is
1) Azan (Adhan)
Reciting the Azan to our baby's right ear.The words of Azan can halau the syaitan as mentioned below
Narrated Abu Huraira: Rasulullah SAW said, "When the adhan is pronounced Satan takes to his heels and passes wind with noise during his flight in order not to hear the adhan... [hadith Bukhari book 11 hadith 582]
This amalan mmg we all buat dari dulu lagi kan, actually untuk give indication that inshaAllah all parents will bring up the anak mengikut the guidance of Islam, correct? but sadly ramai sangat yang buat amalan ni for the baby, but solat sendiri tak terjaga. solat anak bila baligh pun tak jaga. InshaAllah May all of us, strengthen our Tauhid to become parents yang beriman, and didik anak2 yang soleh. Ameen.
2) Tahnik
Tahnik is a process of chewing something sweet ( selalunya tamar/dates) and gently rubbing it agianst the baby's upper jaw or palate so that the baby can suck it. The baby's first taste should be something sweet, so parents may chew a piece of date and rub the juice along the baby's gums. It was a practice carried out by the Prophet Muhammad SAW and is believed to help tiny digestive systems to kick in.
Narrated Anas bin Malik took 'Abdullah bin Abu Talha to Rasulullah SAW to perform tahnik for him. (tahnik was a custom among the Muslims that whenever a child was born they used to take it to the Prophet who would chew a piece of date and put a part of its juice in the child's mouth). I saw the Prophet and he had an instrument for branding in his hands and was branding the camels of Zakat. [Hadith Bukhari Book 24, Hadith 578]
Narrated 'Aisha: A boy was brought to the Prophet to do tahnik for him, but the boy urinated on him, whereupon the Prophet had water poured on the place of urine. [Hadith Bukhari Book 66, Hadith 377]
3) Aqiqah
Our misconception is that the aqiqah is a party organise by family of the newborn after the meat is cook. but in actual fact Aqiqah is the sacrifice that is made when the child is born. Sacrifice yang dimaksudkan is sembelih of the animal (2 sheep for baby boy, 1 sheep for baby girl, but Rasulullah SAW sacrifice 1 sheep each during the aqiqah of Hassan and Hussien his grandsons) also shave the babies head and naming the child (please refer to hadith below) .
Narrated Samurah ibn Jundub: Rasulullah SAW) said: A boy is in pledge for his aqiqah, Sacrifice is made for him on the seventh day, his head is shaved and he is given name. ( Sunan Abu dawud Book 15, Hadith 2832)
The Aqiqah is a right (upon you). Sacrifice two compatible sheep for a boy and one for a girl. [Hadith Ahmad]
The actual sacrifice should best be taken place on the baby 7th day. If the aqiqah does not take place on the 7th day, it may still be sacrificed on the 14th or 21st day. Often during Aqiqah, families have a get together when the meat is eaten. The meat should be contributed to friends, family and golongan miskin.
Buraydah RAA reported that Rasulullah SAW said: The aqiqah should be slaughtered on the 7th day. 14th day or 21st day [Hadith Tabarani]
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As: The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) was asked about the aqiqah. He replied: Allah does not like the breaking of ties (uquq), as though he disliked the name. And he said: If anyone has a child born to him and wishes to offer a sacrifice on its behalf, he may offer two resembling sheep for a boy and one for a girl. [Sunan Abu Dawud Book 15, Hadith 2836]
4) Naming the newborn
A few Hadith has indicate that naming the child should be done on the 7th day, but don't worry ada juga hadith indicated that Rasulullah SAW named some newborns before the 7th day (example hadith below).
Narrated Abu Musa: I got a son and I took him to the Prophet SAW who named him ibrahim, and put in his mouth the juice of a date fruit (which be himself had chewed?, and invoked for Allah's blessing upon him, and then gave him back to me. He was the eldest son of Abii Musa. (Hadith Bukhari Book 73, Hadith 218)
i did a seperate entry on naming the child please visit here
5) Shaving the head
After shaving the newborn's head clean on the 7th day as well, Sedeqah is to be given which is equal to the value to the weight of the hair in silver.
Rasulullah SAW commanded his daughter Fatimah RAA to do it for the children " O Fatimah, shave his head and give charity equal to his hairs weight is silver [ Hadith Ahmad]
Narrated Abdullah ibn Umar: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) saw a boy with part of his head shaved and part left unshaven. He forbade them to do that, saying: shave it all or leave it all. (Sunan Abu Dawud Book #33, Hadith#4183)
Ibn Umar reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade Qaza. I said to Nafi: What is Qaza'? He said: This means having a part of a boy's head shaved and leaving a part unshaven. (Hadith Muslim Book 024, Hadith 5289)
6) Khitan - Circumcision
Removal of the foreskin (for boys before he reaches puberty and sunat for girls)
It is preferable to be done while the child is newborn as Rasulullah SAW performed circumcision for his grandsons Hasan and Hussien on the 7th day [Bayhaqi]. However it can be done anytime before the child reaches puberty
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "Five practices are characteristics of the Fitra: circumcision, shaving the pubic region, clipping the nails and cutting the moustaches short." [Hadith Bukhari Book 72, Hadith 777, Hadith Muslim]
Narrated Umm Atiyyah al-Ansariyyah: A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said to her: Do not cut severely as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband. [Sunan Abu dawud Book 41, Hadith 5251]
Now besides sibuk kemas2 bilik, now me and habib are looking into islamic birth rights takut tertinggal anything.
ok the first thing we should do is
1) Azan (Adhan)
Reciting the Azan to our baby's right ear.The words of Azan can halau the syaitan as mentioned below
Narrated Abu Huraira: Rasulullah SAW said, "When the adhan is pronounced Satan takes to his heels and passes wind with noise during his flight in order not to hear the adhan... [hadith Bukhari book 11 hadith 582]
This amalan mmg we all buat dari dulu lagi kan, actually untuk give indication that inshaAllah all parents will bring up the anak mengikut the guidance of Islam, correct? but sadly ramai sangat yang buat amalan ni for the baby, but solat sendiri tak terjaga. solat anak bila baligh pun tak jaga. InshaAllah May all of us, strengthen our Tauhid to become parents yang beriman, and didik anak2 yang soleh. Ameen.
2) Tahnik
Tahnik is a process of chewing something sweet ( selalunya tamar/dates) and gently rubbing it agianst the baby's upper jaw or palate so that the baby can suck it. The baby's first taste should be something sweet, so parents may chew a piece of date and rub the juice along the baby's gums. It was a practice carried out by the Prophet Muhammad SAW and is believed to help tiny digestive systems to kick in.
Narrated Anas bin Malik took 'Abdullah bin Abu Talha to Rasulullah SAW to perform tahnik for him. (tahnik was a custom among the Muslims that whenever a child was born they used to take it to the Prophet who would chew a piece of date and put a part of its juice in the child's mouth). I saw the Prophet and he had an instrument for branding in his hands and was branding the camels of Zakat. [Hadith Bukhari Book 24, Hadith 578]
Narrated 'Aisha: A boy was brought to the Prophet to do tahnik for him, but the boy urinated on him, whereupon the Prophet had water poured on the place of urine. [Hadith Bukhari Book 66, Hadith 377]
3) Aqiqah
Our misconception is that the aqiqah is a party organise by family of the newborn after the meat is cook. but in actual fact Aqiqah is the sacrifice that is made when the child is born. Sacrifice yang dimaksudkan is sembelih of the animal (2 sheep for baby boy, 1 sheep for baby girl, but Rasulullah SAW sacrifice 1 sheep each during the aqiqah of Hassan and Hussien his grandsons) also shave the babies head and naming the child (please refer to hadith below) .
Narrated Samurah ibn Jundub: Rasulullah SAW) said: A boy is in pledge for his aqiqah, Sacrifice is made for him on the seventh day, his head is shaved and he is given name. ( Sunan Abu dawud Book 15, Hadith 2832)
The Aqiqah is a right (upon you). Sacrifice two compatible sheep for a boy and one for a girl. [Hadith Ahmad]
The actual sacrifice should best be taken place on the baby 7th day. If the aqiqah does not take place on the 7th day, it may still be sacrificed on the 14th or 21st day. Often during Aqiqah, families have a get together when the meat is eaten. The meat should be contributed to friends, family and golongan miskin.
Buraydah RAA reported that Rasulullah SAW said: The aqiqah should be slaughtered on the 7th day. 14th day or 21st day [Hadith Tabarani]
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As: The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) was asked about the aqiqah. He replied: Allah does not like the breaking of ties (uquq), as though he disliked the name. And he said: If anyone has a child born to him and wishes to offer a sacrifice on its behalf, he may offer two resembling sheep for a boy and one for a girl. [Sunan Abu Dawud Book 15, Hadith 2836]
4) Naming the newborn
A few Hadith has indicate that naming the child should be done on the 7th day, but don't worry ada juga hadith indicated that Rasulullah SAW named some newborns before the 7th day (example hadith below).
Narrated Abu Musa: I got a son and I took him to the Prophet SAW who named him ibrahim, and put in his mouth the juice of a date fruit (which be himself had chewed?, and invoked for Allah's blessing upon him, and then gave him back to me. He was the eldest son of Abii Musa. (Hadith Bukhari Book 73, Hadith 218)
i did a seperate entry on naming the child please visit here
5) Shaving the head
After shaving the newborn's head clean on the 7th day as well, Sedeqah is to be given which is equal to the value to the weight of the hair in silver.
Rasulullah SAW commanded his daughter Fatimah RAA to do it for the children " O Fatimah, shave his head and give charity equal to his hairs weight is silver [ Hadith Ahmad]
Narrated Abdullah ibn Umar: The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) saw a boy with part of his head shaved and part left unshaven. He forbade them to do that, saying: shave it all or leave it all. (Sunan Abu Dawud Book #33, Hadith#4183)
Ibn Umar reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) forbade Qaza. I said to Nafi: What is Qaza'? He said: This means having a part of a boy's head shaved and leaving a part unshaven. (Hadith Muslim Book 024, Hadith 5289)
6) Khitan - Circumcision
Removal of the foreskin (for boys before he reaches puberty and sunat for girls)
It is preferable to be done while the child is newborn as Rasulullah SAW performed circumcision for his grandsons Hasan and Hussien on the 7th day [Bayhaqi]. However it can be done anytime before the child reaches puberty
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "Five practices are characteristics of the Fitra: circumcision, shaving the pubic region, clipping the nails and cutting the moustaches short." [Hadith Bukhari Book 72, Hadith 777, Hadith Muslim]
Narrated Umm Atiyyah al-Ansariyyah: A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina. The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said to her: Do not cut severely as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband. [Sunan Abu dawud Book 41, Hadith 5251]
Muslim husband and wife intimacy
Salam girls,
Alhamdulillah my bestie e-mailed this to me...hehehe..and i figured why not i share it with everyone....
Finally, the topic of intimacy from Muslim teachers delivered in a halal manner.
The topic is: Muslim Husband/Wife intimacy.
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What: Sh.Yasir Qadhi is doing a series of 10 emails on Marriage intimacy
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With best wishes to see you succeed at the highest level
Alhamdulillah my bestie e-mailed this to me...hehehe..and i figured why not i share it with everyone....
Finally, the topic of intimacy from Muslim teachers delivered in a halal manner.
The topic is: Muslim Husband/Wife intimacy.
www.LikeAGarment.com
What: Sh.Yasir Qadhi is doing a series of 10 emails on Marriage intimacy
Where: Via email, you can sign up at www.LikeAGarment.com
Who: Sh.Yasir Qadhi
Due to the explicit nature of this topic, only 17 or older may sign up.
When: Emails are starting shortly, and you'll receive and additional email of his on this topic each week.
Why: Read sh.Yasir's explanation at www.LikeAGarment.com
With best wishes to see you succeed at the highest level
Walimatul Urus ( A Must read)
While searching for the meaning of Walimatul Urus, i manage to find this great article..MashaAllah...I love that they quoted many hadith from our Prophet Rasulullah SAW....
Walimatul Urus Antara Syariat dan Adat
Pendahuluan
Masyarakat Melayu sudah menganut agama Islam sejak 600 tahun dahulu. Menurut sejarah, Islam dianuti oleh sultan Melaka, dan menjadi ikutan kita. Oleh kerana Islam sudah lama bertapak di negara kita, adat-istiadat perkahwinan banyak mengikut syarak. Namun, wujud beberapa perkara yang menjadi tentangan golongan ulamak kerana dikatakan berasal dari India yang mempunyai hubungan yang agak intim dengan agama Hindu. Kertas kerja ini merungkai sedikit sebanyak adat perkahwinan yang menurut Islam dan yang dikatakan menurut agama lain. Semoga ALLAH memberikan hidayah kepada mereka yang ingin mendekatkan diri kepadanya.
Definisi Walimatul Urus dan Adat
Menurut perkataan walimatulurus berasal dari perkataan “Al-Walamu” yang memberi makna pertemuan. Dinamakan sedemikian kerana pihak lelaki dan perempuan bertemu sewaktu walimatulurus. Manakala, menurut istilah, walimatulurus adalah makanan/hidangan yang disediakan sewaktu majlis perkahwinan.Selain itu, walimatulurus juga didefinisikan sebagai kenduri bagi merayakan pengantin baru, dan walimah adalah suatu jamuan agama, bukanlah jamuan adat
Definisi adat adalah suatu kebiasaan dari suatu perbuatan yang diulang-ulang dan telah diterima oleh masyarakat sebagai suatu peraturan hidup yang mesti dipatuhi.
Hukum Mengadakan Walimatulurus
Hukum mengadakan walimatulurus (iaitu menjemput orang ramai ke majlis walimatulurus) adalah sunat muakkad. Malahan, Rasulullah saw sendiri mengadakan walimatulurus.
- Dari Anas bin Malik ra bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda, “Lakukanlah walimah meskipun hanya dengan seekor kambing” (HR Muttafaqun alaih)
- Dari Buraidah ra berkata bahwa ketika Ali bin Abi Thalib melamar Fatimah ra, Rasulullah SAW bersabda,”Setiap pernikahan itu harus ada walimahnya.” (HR. Ahmad)
Tujuan Mengadakan Walimatulurus
- Mengikut Sunnah Rasulullah saw dan ajaran Islam.
- Mengumumkan pernikahan pasangan yang baru berkahwin.
- Menggembirakan pasangan yang baru berkahwin.
- Sebagai tanda kegembiraan orang tua kerana mendapat menantu baru.
Hukum Menghadiri Walimatulurus
Hukumnya wajib untuk menghadiri walimatulurus melainkan ada keuzuran.
- Dari Ibnu Umar ra. Ia berkata : Rasulullah SAW. bersabda : “Jika diundang seseorang diantara kamu untuk walimah, maka wajiblah ia mendatangi atau memenuhinya”.
- Dari Abu Hurairah ra., ia berkata : Rasulullah SAW. telah bersabda : “Sejelek-jeleknya makanan ialah makanan walimah yang hanya mengundang orang-orang kaya saja untuk makan, sedangkan orang-orang miskin tidak diundang. Barangsiapa yang tidak menghadiri undangan walimah, maka ia durhaka kepada Allah dan Rasul-Nya”. HR Muslim & Baihaqi
- Rasulullah bersabda, “Apabila seorang dari antara kamu diundang ke kenduri nikah, hendaklah ia datang. Maka, kalau ia berpuasa, hendaklah dia mendoakan, jika tidak, hendaklah ia makan”. HR. Abu Daud
Walaupun begitu, menurut ulama, hukum wajib untuk menghadiri walimatulurus adalah jika pihak yang mengundang membuat perkara berikut:
- Menjemput pelbagai golongan dan tidak terhad kepada golongan yang kaya sahaja.
- Tiada perkara yang mungkar dan maksiat seperti arak, judi, majlis tari menari dan nyanyian yang melalaikan.
- Tiada percampuran bebas antara lelaki dan perempuan (ramai antara masyakarat kita yang mengajak rakan-rakan berbeza jantina dan berbual bersama mereka sewaktu walimah).
- Tiada menggunakan peralatan makan dan minum yang diperbuat dari emas, perak atau sutera.
Perkara-perkara yang perlu dititikberatkan kepada mereka yang ingin mengadakan walimatulurus
Walimatulurus adalah sunnah Rasulullah, dan Rasulullah pernah mengadakan walimatulurus pada bulan syawal sewakut berkahwin dengan Aishah ra. Maka, dianjurkan untuk mengadakan perkahwinan dan walimatulurus pada bulan syawal kerana Aishah ra menyukainya…
- Dari Aisyah ra, katanya, “Rasulullah saw menikahi aku pada bulan Syawal, dan menggauli aku pada bulan Syawal (pada tahun-tahun berikutnya). Tiada isteri-isteri Rasulullah yang lebih beruntung berbanding denganku”. (HR Muslim)
Orang-orang yang diundang hendaklah orang-orang yang bertakwa, janganlah dari orang yang fasiq.
- Rasulullah Shallallaahu alaihi wa Salam bersabda, “Janganlah kamu bersahabat kecuali dengan seorang mukmin, dan jangan memakan makananmu kecuali orang yang bertaqwa”. (HR. Ahmad dan dinilai hasan oleh Al-Albani).
Dibolehkan menyediakan bunyi-bunyian untuk memeriahkan majlis.
- Rasulullah saw bersabda “Umumkanlah perkahwinan dan selenggarakanlah di masjid dan pukullah gendang dan rebana di majlis perkahwinan itu.” (HR Ahmad dan At-Tirmizi)
- Hiburan yang disediakan hendaklah sederhana dan sopan dan menggariskan hal seperti: 1)tiada pergaulan bebas antara lelaki dan perempuan 2)nyanyian dan muzik yang tidak menimbulkan nafsu 3)tidak melalaikan ingatan dan kewajipan terhadap ALLAH 4) seni kata nyanyian tiada perkataan cabul ataupun lucah
Janganlah menjemput golongan kaya sahaja.
- “Dari Abu Hurairah ra., ia berkata : Rasulullah SAW. telah bersabda : “Sejelek-jeleknya makanan ialah makanan walimah yang hanya mengundang orang-orang kaya saja untuk makan, sedangkan orang-orang miskin tidak diundang. Barangsiapa yang tidak menghadiri undangan walimah, maka ia durhaka kepada Allah dan Rasul-Nya”. [HR Muslim & Baihaqi]
Jangan lupa menjemput kaum kerabat dan sahabat-sahabat untuk mengelakkan mereka berkecil hati.
Berniat untuk mengikut sunnah dan memberi kesenangan kepada rakan-rakan yang hadir. Walimatulurus bukanlah untuk menunjuk-nunjuk dan berfoya-foya.
Jangan mengangkat makanan sebelum tetamu habis makan.
Disunatkan menghantar tetamu ke muka pintu. Bermanis muka adalah tanda sifat terpuji.
Ada ulamak menyatakan walimatulurus diadakan selepas malam pertama, kerana Nabi saw tidak pernah mengadakan walimah sebelum malam pertama.
Walimatulurus juga jika boleh, diadakan di masjid.
Perkara yang dititikberatkan bagi tetamu
Memenuhi undangan dan janganlah terlambat.
Jika menerima undangan lebih dari satu, jika mempunyai kelapangan masa, bolehlah pergi ke semua tempat. Namun, jika tidak berkesempatan, boleh pergi ke tempat yang paling awal dan paling dekat antara semua jemputan tersebut.
- Sabda Rasulullah saw, “Apabila bersamaan dua undangan, maka tunaikanlah undangan terdekat dan jika salah satu daripadanya ada yang lebih awal, maka pergilah ke tempat yang lebih awal itu”.
Hendaklah mendoakan pihak yang mengundang.
Tetamu hendaklah memaafkan segala kesalahan dan kesilapan yang dilakukan oleh pihak pengantin. Semoga kemaafan ini memberi berkat kepada perkahwinan mereka.
Perkara Bertentangan dalam Islam yang selalu dilakukan oleh orang Islam berbangsa Melayu
Menabur beras kunyit. Ini dikatakan bertujuan menguatkan semangat pasangan pengantin dan menghalau roh jahat.
Membaca jampi mentera dan menyediakan pulut kuning dan telur kepada semangat jahat dan diperasap. Ini bertujuan untuk memelihara majlis perkahwinan dari semangat jahat yang mungkin mengganggu majlis.
Persandingan. Persandingan dilarang kerana mempunyai unsur tabarruj iaitu diperhias untuk dipamerkan. Budaya tabarruj ini dilarang oleh Rasulullah. Walaupun begitu, jika pengantin perempuan begitu menginginkan majlis persandingan, dibolehkan dengan pihak yang menonton adalah ahli keluarga dan kaum hawa sahaja.
Perbelanjaan walimatulurus yang besar. Rasulullah hanya mengadakan walimatulurus dengan buah tamar dan keju. Ini kerana walimatulurus bertujuan menghebahkan tentang pengantin baru, bukannya untuk berhibur.
Kesimpulan
Mengadakan walimatulurus bukanlah suatu adat Melayu, tetapi suatu sunnah yang dituntut oleh Islam, yang sudah menjadi perkara biasa bagi perkahwinan orang Melayu. Maka, orang Islam yang berkahwin mestilah teruja untuk mengadakan walimatulurus kerana padanya ada pahala. Namun, pihak pengantin perlulah betul-betul memahami perkara yang dibolehkan dan perkara yang tidak dibolehkan, supaya perkara yang haram dapat dielakkan. Justeru itu, perkahwinan yang baru dilangsungkan akan diberkati Allah swt.
Rujukan
- Adnan Hasan Shalih Baharits, Tanggung jawab ayah terhadap anak laki-laki, Jakarta, Gema Ismani, 2005, hlmn 36.
- Ahmad Salwat Lc, Seri Fiqih Kitab Nikah [Online] (Updated 2009) Available at: http://ebook.kuyokuyo.no-ip.info/_Ahmad%20Sarwat/nikah.doc [Last Accessed: # December 2009]
- H.M.Sidin, Asal Usul Adat Resam Melayu, Kuala Lumpur: Penerbitan Pustaka Antara, 1964, hlmn 6.
- Jiro Nakamura, Adat & Pantang Larang dalam Masyarakat Melayu Menurut Perspektif Islam [Online](Updated 2007) Available at: http://jironakamura.blogspot.com/2007/09/adat-dan-pantang-larang-dalam.html [Last Accessed: 3 December 2009]
- Muhammad Ali Quthb, Mutiara Perkahwinan Menurut Ajaran Islam, Kuala Lumpur, Pustaka Haji Abdul Majid, 1995, hlmn 196-200.
- Mustafa Haji Daud, Perkahwinan Menurut Islam, Kuala Lumpur, Utusan Publication & Distributors, 1995, hlmn 73-75.
- Ngaji Salaf, Pernik-pernik Pernikahan [Online] (Updated 2007) Available at:http://ngajisalaf.wordpress.com/2007/07/06/pernik-pernik-pernikahan/ [Last Accessed: 3 December 2009]
- Prof Dr Yusuf Al-Qaradhawi, Fatawa Qaradhawi: Permasalahan, Pemecahan dan Hikmah, Batu Caves, Crescent News (K.L.) Sdn. Bhd., 2005.
- Suzana Ghazali, Buatmu Wanita: sebagai anak, isteri… ketahui hakmu. Kuala Lumpur, 2009, hlmn 82-84.
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Assalamualaikum wbth… Post ini berkaitan dengan walimatulurus. Alhamdulillah, ramai yang sudah tahu benar dan arif tentang walimatulurus. Namun, LPP membawa hal ini kepada mereka-mereka yang tidak mengetahui. Merupakan salah satu dari kertas projek yang telah saya buat. Ianya tidaklah details, secara kasar sahaja… Diharap semua mendapat ilmu, rahmat dan hidayah dari Allah swt…
Henna/Inai and its hukum in Islam
I have to do this entry, because after posting my henna on my hand, i have received a few emails saying concern about the hukum of ukiran henna on my hand...
and the best part is, me and our beautiful blogger Fathiyah, actually discussed about this before my wedding...
A while ago there was an article by datuk Abu Hassan, that shocked everyone when he mentioned that patern henna is haram...I got a shocked because i've been wearing henna non stop at my toe nails for years now, and many times i just add some patern on it, just for the fun of it....So i had to do more research on it to find out what is the hukum henna in Islam
During the time of our Prophet SAW, Henna was used very widely...Rasulullah SAW sangat menggalakkan untuk guna inai, to put on the head, or skin..kebanyakkan penggunaan because Henna/inai ada health qualities.
Below is some example of many2 hadith (tapi mmg ada byk lagi, i ambil 2 je.. yg Rasulullah SAW galakkan...
Umm Salma (R) narrates: "In the life of Prophet Muhammed (Pbuh), no injury or thorn piercing was treated on which Henna was not applied." (Tirmidhi, Sanad Ahmed)
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: A woman made a sign from behind a curtain to indicate that she had a letter for the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him). The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) closed his hand, saying: I do not know this is a man's or a woman's hand. She said: No, a woman. He SAW said: If you were a woman, you would make a difference to your nails, meaning with henna. (Book #33, Hadith #4154
p/s:because of this hadith I think men should stay away from decorative henna and maintain using it for health reasons example henna on the hair but not on the hands during weddings.
Because I'm a heavy user of inai, i dah tanya beberapa pendapat from great scholars a few Islamic scholars, all educated from Madinah, that follows Islam according to Quran and Sunnah of our Prophet Muhammad SAW , ini yang i fahamkan daripada jawapan diorg...
Inai is sangat berbeza dari tatoo. Tatoo memang haram, Memang Allah SWT dah terang2 haramkan tusukkan at our skin, dgn sebab wudu' and memudaratkkan. Uztaz also mention, kita tidak boleh samakan hukum inai dengan hukum tatoo. Tatoo lukisan kekal tapi inai hanya sementara. Jika ada creatif lukisan corak2, pada uztaz tiada masalah. He also mention, not even once Rasulullah SAW menyamakan inai and tatoo.
Bagi hadith yg dipetik oleh Uztaz Abu Hassan tu, if you read it again pun, terang2 kat hadith to mention perempuan yang dilaknat Allah SWT is yang mengukir dengan tusukan(alat pengukir), hence this hadith is more on tatoo not Henna drawing...He went on saying, When it comes to hukum Haram, Allah SWT always explains it in specific, jarang hukum haramnya yg tak mention in detail in Islam..Like in this issue,Tatoo memang disebut haram, but if you read every single hadith about henna in Islam, esp hadith sahiih, is All on penggunaan Henna by the muslims during the time of Rasulullah SAW...
Greats scholars also mention that we should never haramkan apa yg Allah swt halalkan, esp yang baik utk kesihatan like henna and Kohl untuk mata...
Having said all of this, that is why, lukisan henna on hands and leg is widely done by the female Arabs esp kat saudi esp during Raya...Ada yg cakap, tak boleh sebab menyerupai adat India, on the contrary, Henna origins came from middle east, after a few abad baru it went to India, and south Asia...
Allah Knows best...
May All muslims stay away from All Amalan Bidaah ans esp syirk, and follow Islam, according to the Quran and the teachings of our Propher Muhammad SAW. Amiiin....
Wassalam,
sabby
p/s: anil is right, corak henna of binatang and humans mmg NOT ALLOWED...also if anybody yg jumpa any hadith yg mention than henna is haram, do email me k...
and the best part is, me and our beautiful blogger Fathiyah, actually discussed about this before my wedding...
A while ago there was an article by datuk Abu Hassan, that shocked everyone when he mentioned that patern henna is haram...I got a shocked because i've been wearing henna non stop at my toe nails for years now, and many times i just add some patern on it, just for the fun of it....So i had to do more research on it to find out what is the hukum henna in Islam
During the time of our Prophet SAW, Henna was used very widely...Rasulullah SAW sangat menggalakkan untuk guna inai, to put on the head, or skin..kebanyakkan penggunaan because Henna/inai ada health qualities.
Below is some example of many2 hadith (tapi mmg ada byk lagi, i ambil 2 je.. yg Rasulullah SAW galakkan...
Umm Salma (R) narrates: "In the life of Prophet Muhammed (Pbuh), no injury or thorn piercing was treated on which Henna was not applied." (Tirmidhi, Sanad Ahmed)
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: A woman made a sign from behind a curtain to indicate that she had a letter for the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him). The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) closed his hand, saying: I do not know this is a man's or a woman's hand. She said: No, a woman. He SAW said: If you were a woman, you would make a difference to your nails, meaning with henna. (Book #33, Hadith #4154
p/s:because of this hadith I think men should stay away from decorative henna and maintain using it for health reasons example henna on the hair but not on the hands during weddings.
Because I'm a heavy user of inai, i dah tanya beberapa pendapat from great scholars a few Islamic scholars, all educated from Madinah, that follows Islam according to Quran and Sunnah of our Prophet Muhammad SAW , ini yang i fahamkan daripada jawapan diorg...
Inai is sangat berbeza dari tatoo. Tatoo memang haram, Memang Allah SWT dah terang2 haramkan tusukkan at our skin, dgn sebab wudu' and memudaratkkan. Uztaz also mention, kita tidak boleh samakan hukum inai dengan hukum tatoo. Tatoo lukisan kekal tapi inai hanya sementara. Jika ada creatif lukisan corak2, pada uztaz tiada masalah. He also mention, not even once Rasulullah SAW menyamakan inai and tatoo.
Bagi hadith yg dipetik oleh Uztaz Abu Hassan tu, if you read it again pun, terang2 kat hadith to mention perempuan yang dilaknat Allah SWT is yang mengukir dengan tusukan(alat pengukir), hence this hadith is more on tatoo not Henna drawing...He went on saying, When it comes to hukum Haram, Allah SWT always explains it in specific, jarang hukum haramnya yg tak mention in detail in Islam..Like in this issue,Tatoo memang disebut haram, but if you read every single hadith about henna in Islam, esp hadith sahiih, is All on penggunaan Henna by the muslims during the time of Rasulullah SAW...
Greats scholars also mention that we should never haramkan apa yg Allah swt halalkan, esp yang baik utk kesihatan like henna and Kohl untuk mata...
Having said all of this, that is why, lukisan henna on hands and leg is widely done by the female Arabs esp kat saudi esp during Raya...Ada yg cakap, tak boleh sebab menyerupai adat India, on the contrary, Henna origins came from middle east, after a few abad baru it went to India, and south Asia...
Allah Knows best...
May All muslims stay away from All Amalan Bidaah ans esp syirk, and follow Islam, according to the Quran and the teachings of our Propher Muhammad SAW. Amiiin....
Wassalam,
sabby
p/s: anil is right, corak henna of binatang and humans mmg NOT ALLOWED...also if anybody yg jumpa any hadith yg mention than henna is haram, do email me k...
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